We are the sum of the people we surround ourselves with…

This was something I (Ebony) heard at one of the very first weddings i ever photographed (some 13-14 years ago). And honestly it hasn’t left my brain since. A wedding isn’t just about styling or logistics, but about the people and their energy you invite in.

Before we talk about your wedding day, let’s take a moment to celebrate the people who make it unforgettable: your guests. The ones laughing so hard their cheeks hurt, dancing like no one’s watching, offering hugs when you need them most, and making memories alongside you.

We’ve been lucky enough to capture countless weddings where the energy from guests literally transforms a day. That shared joy, excitement, and love isn’t just “extra”- it’s the heartbeat of the whole celebration.

And it’s not just guests - everyone you choose to surround yourself with, from family and friends to your vendors, adds to that energy. Because at the end of the day, we are an accumulation of the people we share our lives with, and our weddings are no different.

Think About How You Want Your Day to Feel

When you imagine your wedding day, what come to mind? Relaxed? Joyful? Intimate? A wild party?

Whatever that feeling is, it’s worth asking yourself: who in your circle will help honour and embrace it? Who will celebrate you wholeheartedly, cheer you on, and bring the right kind of energy?

Your wedding can be an important time in your life to be intentional about who you surround yourselves with. Invite the people who lift you up, make you laugh, and add to the joy. These are the people who will be part of the moments you’ll remember forever.

Your Vendors Matter Too

It’s not just family and friends who shape the experience. The vendors you choose - celebrant, florist, planner, DJ, venue coordinator, and yes, your photographer and videographer - are with you in some of the most intimate and emotional moments of the day.

The energy they bring makes a huge difference. Are they calm when things get a little stressful? Are they excited and energetic about celebrating you both? Do they make you feel supported and understood? Do they add to the joy, or do they add stress and pressure?

We’ve seen firsthand how the right vendors can set the tone: a celebrant who has everyone laughing and crying in the same breath, a DJ who reads the room perfectly and keeps the dance floor alive, or a venue coordinator who quietly smooths out every bump before you even notice.

As your photo + video team, we don’t just show up with cameras. We’re part of the energy that brings your day together. We’ll be there to reassure you when nerves kick in, hype you up when you need it, and keep things relaxed and real so you can actually enjoy the ride.

Why It All Matters

At the end of the day, weddings aren’t about things—they’re about people. The people who hold you up, celebrate your love, and share in the joy of the day.

So when you’re planning, think less about “stuff” and more about who’s standing beside you (literally and figuratively). Surround yourself with the right people, and your day will feel like the most natural extension of who you are.

Because your wedding isn’t just a reflection of your relationship - it’s a reflection of your community and how you got to be where you are now. And that’s what makes it unforgettable.